Relationships
I love Rok but he doesn’t always make it easy. I remind him several times to blog, and he still doesn’t. I ask a serious question and he responds with a joke. He does things very slow when I prefer them to get done quick. Now don’t get me wrong, I definitely have fault in this too. I get easily frustrated when he does a small thing I don’t like. I rush him too often when he is taking a reasonable amount of time. I often ask him to do five tasks and when he hasn’t done two of them I get upset with him. We have talked about these things to each other and have come up with solutions in order to make our relationship work better. But most of these issues boils down to small things like:
He plans to blog but time gets away from him. He is just thinking of an actual serious answer but wants to immediately break the tension. He is used to a life of leisure and does things over a longer period of time. On the other hand I also have reasons for why I get frustrated, because I am not used to doing things with other people and I do things a certain way. I am used to getting things done as fast as possible so I can be done with them and can sit back, but from an outside perspective it seems like things take longer than they actually do. I forget I have asked him to do the first three tasks and think he just hasn’t done what I asked.
But the solutions are generally really easy. I remind him when we aren’t doing anything to blog. I am getting more used to responding in jokes but coming back to the question until we have an answer. He has started to do things faster than he used to. I am trying to realize we have different ways of doing things, but they both get the job done in the end. I have tried to slow down a little bit and not get on his case about the time he takes. I have told him why I ask him to do five tasks and through him telling me that I already asked him to do other things and me both doing more things myself and also waiting for him to finish the first task we have been slowly making our relationship better.
Today I weighed: 214 lbs
Yesterday I ate:
> Two small pancakes
> 2 cups of elbow pasta
> A cup of yogurt
> A sliced up apple
> A small bowl of Cinnamon Toast Crunch
> Two thick black bean burgers
Yesterday I drank: 84 oz of water
So while sometimes Rok makes dating him a little difficult so do I at times, and together we are working on it.
Stay cool.
He plans to blog but time gets away from him. He is just thinking of an actual serious answer but wants to immediately break the tension. He is used to a life of leisure and does things over a longer period of time. On the other hand I also have reasons for why I get frustrated, because I am not used to doing things with other people and I do things a certain way. I am used to getting things done as fast as possible so I can be done with them and can sit back, but from an outside perspective it seems like things take longer than they actually do. I forget I have asked him to do the first three tasks and think he just hasn’t done what I asked.
But the solutions are generally really easy. I remind him when we aren’t doing anything to blog. I am getting more used to responding in jokes but coming back to the question until we have an answer. He has started to do things faster than he used to. I am trying to realize we have different ways of doing things, but they both get the job done in the end. I have tried to slow down a little bit and not get on his case about the time he takes. I have told him why I ask him to do five tasks and through him telling me that I already asked him to do other things and me both doing more things myself and also waiting for him to finish the first task we have been slowly making our relationship better.
Today I weighed: 214 lbs
Yesterday I ate:
> Two small pancakes
> 2 cups of elbow pasta
> A cup of yogurt
> A sliced up apple
> A small bowl of Cinnamon Toast Crunch
> Two thick black bean burgers
Yesterday I drank: 84 oz of water
So while sometimes Rok makes dating him a little difficult so do I at times, and together we are working on it.
Stay cool.
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