Our Anniversary
Sunday marked Rok's and I's third anniversary, and to celebrate we got a buncha junk food and played video games the latter half of Sunday and all day yesterday. We didn't do anything and it was great! Well we went to a couple of stores but they were all luxury shops. Really we should have done more, but sometimes we just need a nothing day. And we figured our anniversary is a good enough excuse to do nothing together all day. This sudden outburst of laziness wasn't helped by the fact that we had been taking a lot of overtime last week and didn't have nearly as much time to ourselves as we would have liked, as a result we have remembered the money isn't worth the time.
But anyway back to the main point, Rok and I have now been together three years, and I believe we have only grown stronger mentally and physically. I think we have been good for each other in so many ways and I think we can still elevate each other further. It has been a bit journey but it has been worth it. There of course have been ups and downs, the downs mostly caused by being hungry. We had a rocky start when I was dating someone else when he asked me out, but that relationship wasn't a happy one I just don't know it at the time. And Rok metaphorical saved me by letting me see that our relationship wasn't a happy one. But he also saved me physically, because I am pretty sure that relationship would have ended badly with some sort of physical violence on one of our parts.
But enough about bad relationships, and onto better ones. Rok saved me, but even after me initially choosing Rok that wasn't the only rocks that were littering the path for us. After getting out of such a long unhealthy relationship I wasn't sure how a healthy one worked and that was a pretty big adjustment for me, and I didn't really know how to deal with it. After several months I figured it out though and I we have had much smoother paths in our way. Of course there are still rocks every now and then but nothing we can't get passed together.
I would say more about pour relationship over the years, but it really isn't the most interesting. The biggest notes are I moved into a place away from my parents a couple into our relationship. That is the apartment where I realized I wanted to be with him. Then when my lease was up there we moved out together into the place we live now. We wanted to move out alone together but my cousin needed roommates so we moved there, then we wanted to move out when that lease was up but my cousin couldn't get roommates. So this lease we made it very clear we are going to move at the end of this lease cycle, and it looks like he has roommates to replace us, one of which is already living there which I was not prepared for. He said he needed to move out by may so I assumed we would be living with him for two months, but nope looks like he is already there and we still have four months on the lease.
But enough about that, I feel I have rambled on long enough, so while Rok and I strive for another happy year together, you guys at there strive:
Stay cool.
But anyway back to the main point, Rok and I have now been together three years, and I believe we have only grown stronger mentally and physically. I think we have been good for each other in so many ways and I think we can still elevate each other further. It has been a bit journey but it has been worth it. There of course have been ups and downs, the downs mostly caused by being hungry. We had a rocky start when I was dating someone else when he asked me out, but that relationship wasn't a happy one I just don't know it at the time. And Rok metaphorical saved me by letting me see that our relationship wasn't a happy one. But he also saved me physically, because I am pretty sure that relationship would have ended badly with some sort of physical violence on one of our parts.
But enough about bad relationships, and onto better ones. Rok saved me, but even after me initially choosing Rok that wasn't the only rocks that were littering the path for us. After getting out of such a long unhealthy relationship I wasn't sure how a healthy one worked and that was a pretty big adjustment for me, and I didn't really know how to deal with it. After several months I figured it out though and I we have had much smoother paths in our way. Of course there are still rocks every now and then but nothing we can't get passed together.
I would say more about pour relationship over the years, but it really isn't the most interesting. The biggest notes are I moved into a place away from my parents a couple into our relationship. That is the apartment where I realized I wanted to be with him. Then when my lease was up there we moved out together into the place we live now. We wanted to move out alone together but my cousin needed roommates so we moved there, then we wanted to move out when that lease was up but my cousin couldn't get roommates. So this lease we made it very clear we are going to move at the end of this lease cycle, and it looks like he has roommates to replace us, one of which is already living there which I was not prepared for. He said he needed to move out by may so I assumed we would be living with him for two months, but nope looks like he is already there and we still have four months on the lease.
But enough about that, I feel I have rambled on long enough, so while Rok and I strive for another happy year together, you guys at there strive:
Stay cool.
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